An intimate relationship is a particularly close interpersonal relationship that invloves physical and emotional intimacy.
As time goes by, building and keeping a good romantic relationship is becoming harder. Technology helps us build stronger relationship but it also breaks good bonds.
1. Be in love. This is the foundation of a good relationship. You should be in love or at least be in love with her on the process. Well, if otherwise, don't hope your relationship will last.
2. Be honest. Trust among others, I think is the most
important ingredient in a relationship. I believe that you can love someone but
you can’t fully trust him but If you trust a person, undeniably, you love that person.
If trust is lost, it’s hard to regain.
3. Keep an open communication. Being in touch with each others and giving updates to what you are doing is also important. As they say, if you really love a person you will always have time for him. Time for each other is really important. You will know each other more when you bond and it will also make your relationship stronger.
4. Never talk about break ups. Think of many things that you can make each other happy. Never think or talk about break ups. It's not useful.
5. Don't talk about your ex's. Past is past. You are what you are because of your past. In relationship, never bring the past and please NEVER EVER compare your EX's to your partner. Your partner may think that you still love your ex's.
6. Don't let the day pass without being fine when you had a fight. There's no perfect relationship. Everyone goes to rough times. When this happen, never let the day pass without being fine. If you does, it will be more complicated. It will also make each other numb and eventually, lose faith. Don't also try to forget it and be good to each other like nothing happened because when another fight occurs, promise, it's not pleasant.
7. Forget about PRIDE. a high or inordinate opinion of one's own dignity, importance, merit, or superiority. This is one relationship wrecker. If you think you are right and she is wrong, go and talk to her. Don't let your pride eat you because you think you are right. If you love your partner you would never let yourself do nothing when you know something is wrong between you. Always remember, in a fight the first one to make move is the more mature one.
8. If you say sorry, mean it. Be humble to accept that you are wrong. After saying sorry, prove that you are really sorry. As much as possible, don't repeat your mistakes. It is one way to prove that you really sorry.
These are some advice that I can give. This may help your relationship or also this could make it worse. Each relationship is unique but always remember
Don't be the PERFECT ONE.
Be the RIGHT ONE.
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